Then I question why this is happening to me.
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I am sure you have been there before. Wondering if your loved or cared for? Why do the things happen that we can not control? Just what is the path to win on the stuggle we have? I loved having this book to help me with my struggles. To know I am not alone. And to help remind me that there is a plan for all of us. Dec 09, Bryon rated it really liked it. I wish I read this book when I was, like, twelve. You read this book and feel like it contains the secrets to the Universe.
In fact, pain can be our ally if we allow it to lead us away from danger and toward the healing power of Christ," write the authors. We spend so much time chasing happiness and trying to avoid pain that it takes most of a lifetime to learn that pain is the first step to healing. In fact, healing can't happen without pain. There are three reasons why we miss the lessons that come from pain: It only makes it worse," the authors write. This is the story of my life. I get so wrapped up in how the other guy is lucky or promoted or better looking or at the front of the lunch line that it weighs me down, causes exhausting mental gymnastics, and fills me with hate.
It's like pain with compound interest. Quite a waste of time. Not only is there purpose beyond our pain, but there is purpose beyond your injustices.
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The authors list five: What you see is not all you get. Justice deferred is not justice denied. Keep a record of rights. These points sound biblical? As you read them in the book, the authors develop these thoughts practically and reference them scripturally. The book is organized into seven parts exploring these concepts: Injustice Rejection Loneliness Loss Discipline Failure Death The Meier and Henderson, as educated and experienced as they are compared to us commoners, write in a way that's accessible and completely understandable. You don't have to have a PhD to hang with these MDs.
As I re-read areas of this book for this review, I became very aware of my desire to read the book again. I think it will serve as a great reference and I'll need to resist the temptation to loan it out knowing how helpful it will be. May 09, Kelly Hager rated it it was ok. The thesis with this book is that hard times can either bring you closer to God or drive you farther from God. When bad things happen, it tends to be for one of two reasons: For instance, if you have a problem with patience, perhaps you will be put in situations where you have no choice but to develop that quality. This is where free will comes in.
He doesn't "let" you get mugged, but if you trust Him, He can take your fear away. I don't think this would be a good book to read while you're going through difficult times although maybe that's just me; hearing about how God works in mysterious ways after my dad died made me want to hit people in the face but I think it'd be comforting to read after, once things are calming down a little.
I do have some issues with some of the things the authors said. First, as someone who's struggled with faith, I can tell you that atheists don't think that there's no point in being a good person in this life. You can be a moral or ethical person without believing in God. And really, isn't there something to be said for doing the right thing because it's the right thing, not 'cause you think God will smite you?
And second, they trotted out Carrie Prejean as an example of faith and not, say, prejudice. Yes, she has every right to believe whatever she wants. But let's not act like she isn't a bigot. And yes, it is the same thing. Oct 31, Marilyn Magallanes rated it really liked it. This is a great helping book on finding a purpose beyond our pain instead of living forever within it. I have written notes and posted colored tabs on its pages as well as used a highlighter within every chapter of this book.
The authors begin with the topic of pain as it relates to injustice and how easy it is to compare our lives to others' and oft times wrongly perceive injustice. Can we handle truth and why blame God; rejection and acceptance; loneliness and knowing yourself, loss and gain, failure and true success, death and resurrection hope, and many more topics Whatever you or your loved one might be dealing with these authors have addressed it as well as the steps to walk through it.
They give "practical application points" at the end of each section for understanding how to follow through. This is a wonderful book; one that you could easily read time and again as needed. Disclosure of Material Connection: I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. Nov 13, Mandy J.
Finding Purpose Beyond Our Pain: Uncover the Hidden Potential in Life's Most Common Struggles
Finding purpose in the painful situations of life is something that more people need to be aware of and implement into their lives. I know that Dr. Henderson are trying to encourage others to do this, and that their intentions are good, but this book misses the mark of being Biblically accurate.
Early on they said that you can only love others as much as you love yourself and I highly disagree with that statement. We can love others because God first loved us.
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Our love does not come Finding purpose in the painful situations of life is something that more people need to be aware of and implement into their lives. Our love does not come from us, it comes from Him.
CRAZED MIND: Finding Purpose beyond our Pain
The book overall presents some good, and thought provoking ideas about pain in our lives. While this is good, the underlying teaching taking place is faulty and I recommend reading this book with great discernment or even skipping it to read The Problem of Pain by C. Feb 17, Valerie rated it it was ok Shelves: The "common struggles" addressed are: The conclusion was very clear and concise. They end the book with "two important truths to hold on to while you focus on the purpose beyond your pain: This book didn't deliver anything special to me.
Had I read it years ago, my "take-away value" would have been more significant. May 19, Ann Louise Tisdale-Ramos rated it really liked it. If you want to feel "normal" for the pain you feel because it fits into some category, this is a great book. About half way through I realized that I did I not need the book to address what I was feeling and the ultimate purpose if picking a book like this.
At one time or another everyone finds themselves questioning, "Does God still love me? Is there a purpose for all this pain?
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